As parents, we are always trying to give our children advice on how they should live their lives. Most times that advice or those pleas to sit down and talk fall on deaf ears. But as parents age, the conversations that need to take place with their children become increasingly important.
Family conversations often cover issues such as health care and end of life, but money must also take center stage. The right money topics can be dependent on the age of the child, but should concern budgeting, debt and other, more basic financial literacy topics. The older the child and the parent, you approach more serious topics like the transfer of wealth upon the death of the parents. Starting early talking about money will make these more serious conversations less painful.
New research conducted by Janus Henderson Investors, the Financial Planning Association and Investopedia shows that parents want to do a better job of communicating about money with their children. Conversely, it seems that advisors don’t often talk about how clients can have money conversations with their kids. Only 35% of advisors say they proactively bring up the issue – and 77% of investors say they have never discussed the topic with their financial advisor.
If clients want to talk about children and money, why don’t advisors bring it up? Or better yet, how can advisors bring children into the financial mix in a way that adds to the existing relationship but isn’t a major drag on productivity or time?
Answering these questions is especially important for advisors and families given the amount of money that is set to change hands over the next few decades. The Boston College Center for Wealth and Philanthropy estimates that $59 trillion will transfer from 93.5 million estates between 2007 and 2061. Obviously, families want to prepare the next generation to receive and preserve this wealth. Advisors want to make sure they continue to manage those assets. Developing a relationship with clients’ children is key to ensuring this, because once parents die and transfer money to their children, the existing advisor is often fired within 12 months.
So how might advisors meet the expressed needs of parents to talk to children about money while also developing these relationships with younger generations?
- Facilitate an annual family money meeting that includes not only parents but children, grandparents or others deemed suitable as well. This meeting could serve as a way to introduce topics important to parents; answer questions about finances, the estate, or documents like wills and trusts; and begin an ongoing conversation around the family’s wealth.
- If you’d like to start meeting with your clients’ children, first make sure you have the time to do so without detracting from your relationship with other clients. If time is a serious concern, perhaps have a more junior advisor in your office handle the logistics of scheduling the meetings. If the goal is to build the relationship, you should take responsibility and be present during those meetings. If that’s too much to ask, then it might make sense to think about your book more holistically and trim existing relationships that don’t make sense. Be intentional about the process.
- Consider developing a packet of information for younger people that can be helpful in understanding the issues they are facing. This could include topics like student loan repayment options, career-related information like negotiating salaries, ESG investing and budgeting templates.
However you do it, it’s vital to foster a relationship with your clients’ children. Not only are your existing clients – the parents – concerned about these topics, but their children will also be the main recipients of their wealth in the future. Making sure you start the money conversation with children helps meet the needs of your existing clients, ensures a smooth transfer of wealth and solidifies you as the family’s primary wealth manager.
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Ben Rizzuto is a Retirement Director with Janus Henderson Investors who works with financial advisors, platform partners and clients to find solutions for today’s increasingly difficult retirement issues. He also contributes to the dialogue surrounding these issues as host of Janus Henderson’s Plan Talk podcast and through periodic posts to the Janus Henderson Blog.
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